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  • May 26, 2020

1st Time Meeting After Chatting Online

Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered. Don't try to think dirty here folks. What I'm talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC. Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms. After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to. Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won't see the other person thinking that it's corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud). Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is. Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The person instead is like living both worlds. When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the person's mannerisms. This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier. It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.

  • May 25, 2020

Chatting Increases Website Traffic

Chatting online has proved to be a really addictive way to pass the time. There are people who just have to log in once day to chat. Many make friends and a lot of information is also exchanged. Then there are those who are just plain addicted and have to chat - friends or no friends. There is no real reason as to why this form of communication is so popular but it has found takers from all walks of life. Now if you are someone who likes to chat and also has an ongoing business, then you might have your own website and this is where you can tap into the immense potential that, if utilized properly, can give you good results. You would naturally like to increase the traffic to your website and one way is to add the link to your chat profile which is viewable by everyone. Chatting will help get the traffic to your site either by a method which involves a long startup time and less maintenance or the other way around, that is less start up time and more maintenance on your part. Work at these ideas and you can effectively use chatting to boost your sites' number of visits. The best way is to post your link into the chat room you have logged into even if you do not know the other chatters. Enter the room, post your link and exit the room. This way you can reach plenty of chatters in one go. But the drawback is that some chatters don't appreciate this type of butting in, so to speak, and you don't want someone booting you out. So a better approach might be to get in the room, make some friends and introduce your site when you feel that the time is right. This approach requires a little more patience from you but in the long run it may get more results. Then your site may get advertised by word of mouth which is a good way to earn respect and people tend to trust information from somebody more than just a link to a site that they don't know about. Yet another option is to add a chat element to the web site. It's time consuming when you set it up, but once you are up and running it can attract like minded people and give you the required traffic as well as word of mouth advertising. This works well for those who have a particular website or about something specific like music or stock markets etc. But this method may not do so well for those who have a retail site. Regular monitoring of your site is very essential as there may be people who may abuse the policies set by you for the chatters. This would give an unprofessional touch to the site which you don't want. With a little bit of research you can find a way which not only increases your friends circle but also serves to boost the traffic to your website. There are others who are already into this kind of advertising and seeing them may give you some ideas on how to execute your plan perfectly. So put on your thinking cap and get on it right away. The results will be yours to see and quickly too.

  • May 24, 2020

Using an Online Dating Service

With research showing that around 30% of us are looking online for friendship and/or romance, then using an Online Dating Service no longer has the stigma attached to it that it used to have say six or seven years ago. Using online dating and friendship sites are now an accepted way of meeting people, whether you are purely looking to increase your social circle and find people with similar tastes and interests to you or whether you are looking for romance – or even more! Meeting people online is a popular and safe way to meet like-minded people – forget smoky nightclubs and the bubble bursting when the person who looks like the type you want to get to know better turns out to have completely different ideals and interests to you. Once you've met a few people who sound nice, you are in control of how the situation goes, so you can go at your own pace, chatting online or sending an email until you decide it is time to speak on the 'phone or meet up – if at all. The beauty of making friends online is that you can do it any time of day or night. It is great if you are a single parent and unable to go out; if you work unsociable hours; or if the idea of going out to clubs and bars makes you think "meat market". Dating or meeting people on the Web means you can get to know someone really well before you meet up so that you can se that your tastes, intellect and ideals are the same. So, how can you make the most out of using a online dating service (and remember, just because it has the word 'dating' in it, doesn't mean that you cannot meet people for friendship on there)? First of all, to find a site, do a search using a search engine and type in words and phrases such as "online friendship", "online dating", meet people online etc". You can then visit a few sites to see how they operate and to see which ones you feel comfortable with. Once you've found one - or even two or three! – websites you like the look of, you can  register your details (most will allow you to register free) and then start meeting and chatting to people online. Many also have offline activities, such as met ups in pubs, and organised events, which is a great way to go out without any pressure to meet anyone. It can also help you to put a face to a name if you have been chatting online for a while to someone! If you do decide to meet someone on a one-to-one basis, then of course you should employ all the common sense safety precautions you'd do normally such as meeting in a busy place and telling people where you are going etc. Sadly, meeting people online does not mean you'll never meet an unscrupulous person again. The positive new is that online dating and friendship sites have spawned a great many marriages, babies and strong friendships, so if there is a space in your life, going online could be the answer.

  • May 23, 2020

Teen Online Dating Tips

Teen dating whether online or off is very popular these days not limiting to adults only, but younger generation and teenagers are also involved into it. Teen dating is considered as important part in the life. Teen dating is a time of social experimentation for teenagers. It can be a wonderful and fun time where self confidence is built up, and dating techniques are learned. Teens also learn how to be both assertive and compromising, how to be giving to another and how to expect the same in return. All of this is a sort of practice session in order to find "Mr." or "Miss Right." It's a time for them to test out which type of partners appeal to them, and how they can negotiate a romantic relationship. But since it is a delicate teenage, it can also be a confusing time not only for teenagers but also for parents. Since it is such a delicate age with incomplete maturity, while dating, teenagers and their parents should be aware of lots of things to make teen online dating as fun and not a nuisance. Whether you are a teenager ready for dating or a parent who has teens at home, it is good to have some idea about what is going on and what to expect and what to be careful about in teen online dating. Teen online dating can be fun if you are aware of its pros and cons and are also aware of the ways to prevent that. But it should be done with caution. Teen online dating should be a memorable experience not a horrifying one. Teen online dating is very famous these days because of its convenience and advantages. The first and foremost advantage from teen online dating is that you can contact matches without revealing your real identity avoiding the embarrassment if doesn't work out. You may meet the people you would otherwise never get the chance to encounter. Teen online dating is a time to learn about person's qualities and attributes through the conversation. Since you are not seeing each other, it gives the chance to both of you to reveal the thoughts and feelings without feeling awkward or embarrassed. Whereas an inability to predict chemistry is perhaps one of the most limiting aspects of teen online dating, the advantages to this medium as a way of finding, introducing, and developing a relationship are significant and numerous. The increasing popularity of teen online dating is evidence to the multiple advantages. If you look around, there are lots of teen online dating services which give you all the facilities and security while you are dating.

  • May 22, 2020

7 Essential Steps To Overcoming Adversity

I might never have found happiness and success. Why? For starters, I am the child of rape, born to an unwed teenage mother on welfare. Instead, I overcame life's obstacles of poverty, abuse and neglect. Now I'm a successful entrepreneur, author and media personality who has achieved financial freedom and independence. There are even plans to make a movie about my rags-to-riches life! Clients and audiences everyday have dubbed me "The Girl Next Door Who Made It Big! (Blessings In God). If I was able to leave my dysfunctional life behind at the age 17 (with only a Wal-Mart paycheck in my pocket), anyone can! Come explore with me YOUR personal journey to "The Dawning of a Rich Life": BEING RICH Most people never realize what "rich" truly means. Building wealth isn't just defined in money. It's richness in Mind, Body and Spirit. I measure my prosperity in the number of friends, hopes, accomplishments, and feelings of safety I now have. Decide now to be really rich, never settle, empower yourself... and enduring wealth will come to you. WE NEED HEROES Only by striving for something better can I hope to be a role model for others (so far so good!). So who is my hero? God, first and foremost. But, thankfully, humanity has been blessed with others we can all emulate. Oprah Winfrey is certainly someone who has chosen to overcome adversity in her life. Have you thought about the difference this one woman is making? She continues to inspire me to keep reaching. READ AND LEARN Never stop finding new information and new viewpoints. Many books have greatly influenced me in positive ways. And you needn't be an author or journalist to appreciate the vast knowledge available in libraries, book stores, the news media and online. GIVING IS RECEIVING I support many charities and organizations that touch my heart. We receive back tenfold when we give time and energy to help our communities and our nation. I'm executive director of the Antley-Bixler Foundation and I'm also actively involved with the Big Brothers/Big Sisters organization. You, too, can get involved by feeding the hungry, rescuing the needy, reaching abused and neglected kids, volunteering and donating. CONSIDER YOUR HEALTH A health scare prompted me to began a major re-evaluation of my life. I discovered what the medical industry isn't telling us. What can YOU do to improve your health so your happier, more meaningful, more abundant life will last longer? OVERCOMING FEAR By facing the most fear-generating issues in life, you can move on Whether your concern is going to the dentist ... being rejected by someone ... trying something new or redefining something familiar ... asking for help or giving it -- ultimately any fear can be conquered. FORGIVENESS Don't hurt yourself with energy-zapping grudges and bitterness. Remember to find forgiveness, even if you can't forget. I went from "Beer Girl to Business Woman." I could have been a topless dancer or kept working at Wal-mart, but I knew there was something better for me. Let's all look ahead at the new horizon to the Dawning of whatever tomorrow holds!